Ill Doctrine: How to Tell People They Sound Racist
Jay Smooth goes into a nice, rational explanation of how to have a very awkward conversation.
Unfortunately, most of the people involved in said conversations are not rational and will immediately start with the derailing process. *sigh*

Carmen Van Kerckhove is co-founder and president of
Tensegrities » Blog Archive » Great video on engaging racism on 25 Jul 2008 at 10:25 am
[...] Here’s a great little video that makes the important point that we should be focusing on “what people did” rather than “who they are” if we are really going to make a difference around racism. It also reminds me why a study of rhetoric is such an important part of theological education. (Hat tip to Racialicious) [...]
Bisexual dating site “does not support” trans member, part 2 « Bi-Furious! on 27 Jul 2008 at 10:45 am
[...] (This goes back to a conversation I’ve had several times recently, even before I saw it on Racialicious and Feministing, about how much more useful it is to talk about the fucked-up things people say and [...]