“World” Keeps Turning Over Stereotypes

by Guest Contributor Melinda, originally posted on Muslimah Media Watch

Last month we wrote about the introduction of a Muslim character on the popular American soap opera As the World Turns. Ameera Ali Aziz, arrived freshly from Iraq, faced deportation unless she married Noah, who was already in a relationship with boyfriend Luke. In the episodes since the wedding, the plot has thickened as the difficulty of maintaining a marriage of convenience has set in. Additionally, Ameera’s gone through a few changes.

The most immediately noticeable is her dress. Ameera arrived on the screen dressed in the standard under-chin hijab, no hair showing. Post-marriage she appeared to have started experimenting, trying out the style of hijab that tied in the back, leaving her earlobes bare. From there she went to leaving off the hijab altogether in front of her marriage-of-convenience husband, eliciting a “Your hair is so beautiful” comment. Now she’s settled into covering her in the Southwest Asian style — a scarf tossed loosely over her head, letting the front of her head (and hair!) show.

I’m not sure what the show’s writers or costume directors intended in this change. Perhaps they noticed what Noah did — that actor Tala Ashe does have pretty hair and perhaps they should capitalize on her looks. Quite possibly it’s part of an “Americanization” process the character is undergoing. Since, of course, American women don’t wear hijab. Immigrants might, but after awhile, they’ll see the American light and take it off.* Ameera provides no stated explanation, but the change reflects the idea that a fully covering hijab isn’t really compatible with being an American, as she is becoming.

At the same time, she seems more confident. That doesn’t mean the other characters abandon the patronizing comments and tones of voice, but Ameera has become less likely to put up with it. Trying to engage a discussion, Luke cajoles Ameera, “Come on. Let’s sit. Let’s talk.” She’s having none of it. “Just let me go,” she replies, irritated and uninterested in pleasing him.

Nevertheless, some of her old deference remains. “If you think that’s best, I’ll trust you,” she tells her husband obediently in another moment, her tone of voice clear that she doesn’t agree.

The writers continue to throw in stereotypes about Iraqi culture where they can. They simultaneously paint a picture of the U.S. that is completely blind to the sexism (and subsequent xenophobia) present in modern society and displayed by the show’s characters. One morning Noah wakes up to find Ameera in the kitchen, making a “real American breakfast” of eggs and orange juice — minus the bacon, one of the few (indirect) references to Ameera being Muslim. Noah tells her that being waited on makes him nervous. “But I’m your wife,” she protests. With the air of the all-knowing American, he explains, “That’s not the way it works around here.” I know plenty of American men who expect their wives to cook for them. I don’t know what world of gender equity Noah’s living in, but it’s one that nevertheless lets him get away with making comments like this:

“You’ve got to learn our customs here. Come, sit.” It’s like speaking to a toddler.

Despite Noah’s denial of gender roles, he maintains sexist stereotypes disguising them as “humor.” “After we’re done, you can practice yelling at me to do the dishes and take out the trash,” Noah says. “That was a joke,” he adds, and she laughs on cue. Hilarious.

Some more gems about this fantasy American society:

AMEERA: I cannot get used to seeing a man do the dishes.
NOAH: Well, in America the husband and wife usually share the chores.

Clearly, the implication is that in the sad, backward country of Iraq, the gender equality Americans enjoy is simply unfathomable. The one-dimensional picture paints Iraq as the distant source of Ameera’s terrible past — and nothing more. When asked, “What was your life in Iraq like?” — a question that couldn’t be more vague — Ameera can’t help but praise the U.S. in comparison. Iraq, she explains, was very different (read: bad).

“Where I lived there was no electricity, no running water, very little food,” she says. “People wouldn’t go out after dark — it was like a ghost town.”

Like statements discussed in the last post, this description isn’t put into context of the American invasion. It’s not that Iraq has never had electricity or running water — the recent lack is a result of being bombed. Instead of placing the responsibility where it belongs, these comments leave the impression that Iraq is somehow inferior to the United States. Compounding this message, Ameera’s memory includes nothing but Iraq as a war zone. She has no happy memories of her homeland, and you’d think the country didn’t exist before the war began.

Ameera’s background is constantly seen through a lens of Western superiority. When trying to explain to the immigrant officer why Noah and Ameera don’t sleep together, Luke’s grandmother falls back on Ameera’s background as an excuse. The implication is that in Iraqi culture, married couples don’t sleep together. What?! True, Luke’s grandmother was lying on the spot to keep the officer from deporting Ameera. But the officer’s silence is telling. The man who argued against all the other defenses didn’t point out the fallacy in this excuse. How does he think Iraqi couples have children?

But Ameera is doing her best to show that Iraqi women aren’t always asexual. Indeed, she falls in love with her MOC husband and tries to seduce him. Never mind that he’s gay and already in a relationship with Luke. Iraqis, remember, are supposedly new to the existence of this whole “gay thing.” Another aspect of the naive foreigner.

Ameera goes to a boutique and buys makeup and sexy clothes, ready to surprise Noah. She steps out in the low-cut halter dress, her hair down, and kisses him on the lips. Trying to turn a gay person straight through sheer sexiness has never worked, something ignorant, child-like Ameera doesn’t know (she’s a foreigner, you see*). And as far as plot twists go, it’s painfully unoriginal. But somehow I suspect there’s audience interest in seeing the conservative Muslim woman turn sexy and flirtatious. To no avail, of course: Noah’s not interested. In despair, Ameera decides to move back to Iraq. But no one wants that, so, to solve everything, Luke moves in with them. (Yeah, that’ll really throw the immigrant officer off.) And here’s where the story leaves off.

With her return to Iraq canceled, it looks like Ameera’s here to stay. I don’t predict her character becoming any more complex. Especially since the writers’ idea of complexity is to throw a Muslim woman out of her element by giving her some lipstick. Oh, please.

You can watch the parts of the show featuring Ameera on YouTube (starting here and continuing through part 160) or the full-length episodes at the official website.

*Editor’s Note: This is sarcasm.

Share and Enjoy:
  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • StumbleUpon
  • del.icio.us
  • Google Bookmarks
  • NewsVine
  • Current
  • email
  • Print

Trackbacks & Pings

  1. Des Temps → Blog Archive → Islam, Bong Hits & Advertising ‘08 on 05 May 2008 at 9:55 am

    [...] 5/5/08 As The World Turns & Islam [...]

Comments

  1. Feminist Punk! wrote:

    whoa, she’s hot.

    lol.

  2. The Cruel Secretary wrote:

    “With her return to Iraq canceled, it looks like Ameera’s here to stay. I don’t predict her character becoming any more complex. Especially since the writers’ idea of complexity is to throw a Muslim woman out of her element by giving her some lipstick. Oh, please.”

    ::headdesk::

  3. MHB wrote:

    great post

  4. Cynthia wrote:

    Well it is a soap opera. I don’t expect much in believable plots or story lines from this genre. It’s still amusing how she shed her culture so easily and who told her where to go to get sexy clothes and some lipstick?

  5. Feminist Punk! wrote:

    Anyway, I suppose it’s a good thing that they put in a Muslim/Middle Eastern character in an U.S soap opera. But uh yeah, you know, typical archetypes and stereotypings die hard.

  6. Chica Dificil wrote:

    As a Latina feminista, sarcasm is duly noted and appreciated! In solidarity my sista.

  7. Abu Sinan wrote:

    A few things. Her name is “Tala Ashe”? Where is she from? My guess is that she is originally Iranian American married to an American man? I couldnt find anything strictly biographical on her. Tala is a name that can be Arabic or short for “Natalia” in English.

    The way she is wearing her hijab in the one picture is certainly an Iranian way of wearing it, as well as Asian.

    Anyway, the stereotypes are legion. Arabs eat eggs for breakfast, even OJ, though more likely mango or apricott juice or something like that. The hijab tied behind the ears tends to be more of an Egyptian, or even Somali style, not one an Iraqi lady is likely to wear.

    Seems to me the message is that any Muslimis bound to see the superiority of the American way, shown in it’s most base form of sexuality and stereotypes.

    It is funny how the West always sees Arab women as being docile and submissive. The exact OPPOSITE is usually true. Trust me, I am married to an Arab woman. The have their own minds and are not afraid to let you know it.

    It is interesting to see the way that Orientalism has changed. It used to be in the classical Orientialist mindset that Arab women were HYPERSEXUAL, not asexual. I guess they have to bend the stereotypes to fit the needs of the day. Back then the Christian world was scandalised by the sexual nature of Arab women. Now that the Christian West is more liberal, they are scandalised by the fact that these same women are now asexual. Amazing.

    As someone said before, it is a soap, and as such doesnt appeal to the more intellectual part of people’s nature.

  8. The Cruel Secretary wrote:

    @ Feminist Punk–”But uh yeah, you know, typical archetypes and stereotypings die hard.”

    Die hard? More like resuscitated and rebuilt faster and stronger, like the Bionic Woman. LOL

    @ Abu Sinan and Cynthia–I completely feel where you’re coming from as far as soap opera not being the most intellectual of entertainment. But, as wendi muse and other writers and commenters have said before, they contain images and ideas that help inform how some people (meaning their viewers) see others, especially marginalized “others,” like Muslim women and gay people.

  9. sfsinger wrote:

    Don’t you know the US are liberators! And how in the history of mankind can a man be gay if he’s married to a woman?
    [snark in case someone actually believes that]

    Seriously, I’d hate to put an actor out of work but those writers suck and they need to fix the plot – instead they’ll probably get rid of the character. Can we write in with complaints? ABC brought back Angie and Jessie to boost ratings really and imo have not featured them prominently enough.

  10. Fatemeh wrote:

    Abu Sinan: she’s Iranian. Which makes it all the more painful. And I would also agree with you that her hejab is Irani-style in the hair-showy pic.

  11. Torontonian wrote:

    NOAH: Well, in America the husband and wife usually share the chores.

    LOL

  12. jd wrote:

    “How does he think Iraqi couples have children?”

    OK, I’m guessing that the grandmother meant that they retreated to separate bedrooms to, you know, sleep. That wouldn’t stop the baby-making, as long as they had sex first. (still a stupid lie and from your description the scene is insane on many levels – what the hell is the grandmother doing at their green card interview? )

  13. rob wrote:

    I think Bill Mahar said it best:

    “The reason why everyone hates us is because we don’t know why they hate us.”

  14. Ginny wrote:

    Greetings all, funny you’d post this, I have a “guilty pleasure” in that I’m a Young and the Restless fan, have watched it since I was like 12 or so, starting from the late ’80s, and I’d wondered if some soap, somewhere, would put a “Muslim character” in the soap. Sounds like they did about as bad of a job as I thought they would. I wonder if they could show a more “orthodox” Muslim, i.e., one who prays, fasts, doesn’t engage in things like fornication, etc., without making them out to be an extremist / “terrorist”, but I guess not, because then, in soap opera land, that would make for a boring storyline…

  15. what'sgoingon? wrote:

    Hold on, how did she get here from Iraq again? Does the US government grant visas to single Iraqi women? Do American men routinely marry women in/from Iraq? Are there visas available for the American men to bring their Iraqi wives/fiancees to the US? How exactly did they get married? I admit I am not very knowledgeable about these things, bur as far as I know, this is all highly improbable. Very much so.

    A ridiculous soap opera story line. And I’m sure that the overwhelming majority of Soap Opera viewers never really get to see any Muslim or Iraqi women portrayed on TV or on film. So this is what they get? A Persian actress dressed like a South Asian? Mercy.

  16. Tree wrote:

    This is a conundrum, since I had an employer who tended toward the flirtatious and liked dressing up to impress men, who was very much a muslimah and her own businesswoman. Granted, she was coming from a perspective of dissatisfaction at home, but while she wore hijab to be respectful on a few occasions and prayed rather consistently every afternoon she was definitely divorced from the stereotype of the pettish muslim woman. If she didn’t get something because she didn’t acquire that cultural cue, she’d ask you flat out. And she knew, before emigrating from Egypt, what a gay man was.
    It’s nice that they’re trying to be inclusive but they could at least pretend that, like any other person, she has opinions of her own instead of flirting with that vacuous foreigner trope.
    Though of course, one only needs to look as far as Flor in ‘Spanglish’ for that. They’re from two different cultures but are, essentially, the same woman.

  17. jayspark wrote:

    thoroughly enjoyed reading this post!

  18. luckyfatima wrote:

    great post…i think this is some sort of Orientalist fantasy of unwrapping the delightful foreign candy that is a veiled Muslim woman, and saving her from her own people. on the MMW blog, I also liked Tara’s comments that the storyline was also insulting to gay men as well because it makes it seem as if they don’t value marriage and so forth.

    i have never seen the show and don’t like soaps, but I don’t discount their power in both simultaneously reflecting and influencing average people. that’s why such stupid representations of Muslims are dangerous.

  19. luckyfatima wrote:

    hey I was waiting for you guys either here or on MMW to take a look at/hash out/ dissect the media coverage of the “mysterious” Huma Abedin of the Clinton Campaign…

  20. Renee wrote:

    I am not surprised to see this ridiculous approach on a day time soap opera. They never offer anything of value to their viewers. Remember there was time on the soaps when women were falling in love with their rapists. Soaps have never been a venue for exploring social issues and it looks like nothing has changed.

  21. Fatemeh wrote:

    Salaam, luckyfatima. I know of Huma Abedin but I haven’t seen any stories about her (other than one in Vogue a long time ago). We’d love to cover this, though, if there’s an issue of media mischaracterization or something. Email me at muslimahmediawatch@gmail.com if you have any ideas/links. Thanks!

  22. Spike wrote:

    I’m actually a soap fan, and think serialized stories can be really good (half of prime time is serialized now), but daytime stinks for diversity.

    The fact that they’d do such a poor job with Ameera is no surprise. Most soap writers these days (not all, but many) are coasties who barely have an idea about much of Middle America, let alone anyone of color, or anyone who isn’t Christian.

    Storylines were much more diverse 30 years ago, but daytime has slid backwards. There are maybe a half-dozen African-American characters, a few gay characters, and a few Asian characters. And one Jewish character, I believe. The women are portrayed as if feminism never happened.

    It’s unfortunate that the crafting of a character like Ameera is in such sloppy hands.