links for 2007-09-28

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  1. hoo_boy wrote:

    Re Karrine Steffans: Illuminating piece from Susie Bright’s recent interview with Jessica Cutler (a/k/a Washingtonienne) on both the hypocrisy of celebrity/powerful cheaters caught and double standards placed upon “tell all’s”.

    http://www.10zenmonkeys.com/2007/09/18/dc-sex-diarist-bares-it-all

    Refreshing to live in a society where pursuers of any persuasion can brag, lie, cheat, and sneak about their desires; blame the ones they woo for what happens; and fling choice words of judgement for the messengers without taking responsibility. That’s walking with a wide stance indeed, yeah…

  2. Mike wrote:

    There is a HUGE difference between jessica and Karrine was dragged out than decided to make a book and still did not reveal herself till dragged out again. Plus I don’t believe she intends to continue on with her former life to make another book. Nor did she deny who she was.
    Karrine is a merc. She exposed herself than tried to play victem to the big bad men who were paying her. She had other career options but chose to play the mistress/golddigger. Than had the nerve to come out with another book and say she is representing single black women.
    see rhymeswithsnitch.blogspot.com

  3. imdeep wrote:

    As a guy, I had honestly tuned out all this stuff previously. But then I’ve read Susie Bright’s interview with Ms. Cutler, along with Kam William’s interview with Ms. Steffans

    http://aalbc.com/reviews/karrine_steffans.htm

    Now I’m rethinking, and while the backstories still raise some questions for the women, I’ve really got some questions for the men too.

    Both women, born in 1978, lived highly unapologetic sexual lives and wrote about them. Had they been men, I can’t help but think they’d be celebrated for their conquests or exploits (compare to the memoirs of male actors, athletes, artists, musicians, etc.).

    As women, if their sexcapades were steeped more in tragedy, there would be more sympathy for them. If they were men, there would be a push to assign a moral failing to external circumstances.

    That both endured scandal to capitalize on their fame adds to their lack of sympathy, perhaps?

    “Cheaters code of honor ans secrecy”. The corollary: gentleman never ask for sex, ladies never think about sex, so no one ever talks about it, therefore no one ever cheats.

    (Note to Mike: Cutler is actually working on the second book as well as the film version of the first book, pending the outcome of the DC lawsuit– the AR lawsuit was dismissed).

  4. Mike wrote:

    imdeep
    I stand corrected more in common than I thought

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